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ok, so i don't know why i am asking this question of my fellow mouse enthusiasts, but i'll ask you cuz well, i don't as much man experience (having been with the same guy forever) and my mom and grandma are dead and i don't really have the type of friends i'd ask this. and obviously i can't ask my husband LOL....and no judging here....right? *gulp*
so i know this guy, right? (he did the floors in my house) and i must say he is rather attractive, ok smoking hot... but that's not the point. we flirted a bit and all that jazz but i'm obviously not going to or looking to cheat on my hubby, i love him to death, im not that type of person at all, i just wanted a guy to talk to just for some interest in my life since all i do is go to school and work. so we exchange numbers and all that, hang out a couple times just like friends and we texted cuz we have some interests in common and we both have busy schedules. but to make a long story short...his mom got really sick and he told me he was worried about her and that he was going up to Oregon to see what he could do. at that point i figured i wouldnt bother him so about 2 weeks later i text him and no answer, couple more weeks i text him, no answer and one last time, no answer. and he didn't come off at all as they type of guy that would just stop talking to you like a jerk and never call you back like a lot of guys...so my question is do you guys think he's just being a jerk and blowing me off and he doesn't want to talk to me or should i give him the benefit of the doubt and he's just busy or his phone broke or he doesn't have my number anymore (he wont answer or text back numbers he doesn't know) or something of that nature?
sorry, kind of a personal problem but it's been kinda eating at me since i rather liked his company, as a friend of course.
so i know this guy, right? (he did the floors in my house) and i must say he is rather attractive, ok smoking hot... but that's not the point. we flirted a bit and all that jazz but i'm obviously not going to or looking to cheat on my hubby, i love him to death, im not that type of person at all, i just wanted a guy to talk to just for some interest in my life since all i do is go to school and work. so we exchange numbers and all that, hang out a couple times just like friends and we texted cuz we have some interests in common and we both have busy schedules. but to make a long story short...his mom got really sick and he told me he was worried about her and that he was going up to Oregon to see what he could do. at that point i figured i wouldnt bother him so about 2 weeks later i text him and no answer, couple more weeks i text him, no answer and one last time, no answer. and he didn't come off at all as they type of guy that would just stop talking to you like a jerk and never call you back like a lot of guys...so my question is do you guys think he's just being a jerk and blowing me off and he doesn't want to talk to me or should i give him the benefit of the doubt and he's just busy or his phone broke or he doesn't have my number anymore (he wont answer or text back numbers he doesn't know) or something of that nature?
sorry, kind of a personal problem but it's been kinda eating at me since i rather liked his company, as a friend of course.